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i guess one example would be on your 21st birthday getting your first legal drink etc.. 

what have you done in the past for yourself? do you do it every year or has it changed with your age?</description><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 02:44:29 GMT</pubDate><author>moonlitmagikchild</author></item><item><title>Mattress, bed or floor??</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1289155.aspx</link><description>Which is the most comfortable to sleep on of all?? Bed should be the most obvious choice for all, but is there anyone with a different opinion, share it..For me, i started out sleeping on mattress on the floor for almost 20yrs b4 i got my own bed.. When i slept on the bed, it was so comfortable that i could doze off right away :) LOL.. But as i sleep longer, i still prefer my mattress on the floor as its much cooler.. haha.. How about u?? </description><pubDate>Thu, 27 Sep 2007 11:56:42 GMT</pubDate><author>kun2349</author></item><item><title>What is your greatest mistake in blogging?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2183019.aspx</link><description>Many of us start blogging without knowledge of what blogging is. 
As a result, we bound to make many mistakes as we learn the rope of blogging. Today, i spent practically the whole day rectifying the blog posts.
I had learnt quite long ago about using "nofollow" for affiliate link, otherwise Google will penalize the page ranking. The problem was that I didn't pay attention, and viewed that as important. Then I read a blogger mentioned that his blog was downgraded from PR4 to PR0, and Google practically kills his SERP, so no traffic coming from search engine at all.
He has a few banners with "do follow" instead of "nofollow", including his clickbank hoplinks.
I hunt around for articles about adding the "nofollow" tag, since i dont even know what it is. 
I had more than 200 published blog posts from my two blogs, and 100 more scheduled for publishing. all the articles have 2 to 5 clickbank hoplinks. Poor me spent the whole day copying and pasting the nofollow to all the hops. 
Now I feel drained. How I wish I pay more attention! My blog could have better ranking, and more traffic from search engines.
What about you? What is your greatest mistake in blogging? </description><pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 08:08:10 GMT</pubDate><author>scheng1</author></item><item><title>How do you define a successful blog?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2176660.aspx</link><description>Many of us have blogs. How do you feel about your blogs? Do you think your blog is a successful blog?
I have two little blogs, hardly any reader, and hardly any earning. However, I considered my blogs as successful blogs, because they have my heart and soul. Even when I rewrite PLR content, it's a major rewrite, so that the result is my uniquely lousy style of writing, and the rewritten content reflects my viewpoints and opinion.
As long as I enjoy blogging as much as eating and sleeping, I consider my blogs as successful.
what about you? how do you define a successful blog?</description><pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 22:58:10 GMT</pubDate><author>scheng1</author></item><item><title>Do you know that the largest trade union is in China?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2184561.aspx</link><description>I'm reading an article in Reuters as well as the comments on the article.
It's surprising to see that one commenter does not seem to know that trade union is very active in China. Even the management of Wal-Mart in China has to deal with trade union.
I think the lack of knowledge of the existence of trade union in China is due to the fact that workers dont carry on massive strikes in China.
However, that does not mean that trade union is powerless. After all, China is still a communist country, and seem to be pro-employee. 
Do you know that the largest trade union is in China? What do you think is the hallmark of successful trade union?</description><pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 02:28:16 GMT</pubDate><author>scheng1</author></item><item><title>How would you feel if you reach 1000th blog post?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2158635.aspx</link><description>I check my blog just now, I have only 163 blog posts in one blog, and much lesser in my second blog post.
I aim to reach the 1000th blog post mark within five years, since I doubt I have the ability to update it daily.
How many blog posts are there in your blog? How would you feel if you reach 1000th blog post? Do you think you will suffer from writer's block or burnout before reaching the 1000th blog post?</description><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 05:31:19 GMT</pubDate><author>scheng1</author></item><item><title>How long have u been not crying</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2134377.aspx</link><description>HOw long have u been suppressing the tears inside of u?? Even though when they are on the verge of dropping, yet, we dun allow it.. 

For me, it's been almost years since i last really cry out loud.. Till recently, i watched some really sad scenes in a show, which almost make me wanna cry, but i din again.. I suppressed it further when i know it's not healthy to do so.. hehe ^_^ [em]shocked[/em]

BUt i believe, the day will come soon, for me to burst out crying, as my tears are swelling up very easily, with very little little simple touching or sad scenarios.. haha =D [em]wink[/em] </description><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 12:13:47 GMT</pubDate><author>kun2349</author></item><item><title>What's love about?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2134389.aspx</link><description>Is it about fighting for your own happiness, or letting it go at the right time?? 

If one decides to fight for it, have one ever think about the partner of him/her?? Their feelings?? KNowing that, someone is courting their partners, and yet they cant be interfering too much, for it might result in 'not trusting' enough.. 

For the one, fighting with the curent bf/gf over them, are they being selfish?? To only care about themselves but not the others involved?? IN this case here, be it any party, there's bound to be someone hurt.. As such, why not make a decision fastm instead of prolonging the suffering?? 

Or rather, giving a false impression of there's a chance?? At the end of it, the one suffering most will be the current bf/gf, for they are left with no choice, whether, their partners leave them in the end or not.. As the hurt will be there.. </description><pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 12:21:53 GMT</pubDate><author>kun2349</author></item><item><title>Am i the ONLY one that is sick of hearing about Twilight?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2145576.aspx</link><description>now i have not read the books but something about sparkling vampires and the actors in the movie just put me off yet all i hear about is this freaking movie! 

anyone else sick of the "Twilight" obsession? how many more movies are coming out so i can know how long my suffering will last lol..

if your a twilight fan enlighten me on what is great about this movie and maybe i will actually try it out just to make sure everything i heard wasnt misleading but i still dont like the actors lol</description><pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 18:47:00 GMT</pubDate><author>moonlitmagikchild</author></item></channel></rss>