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sometimes, your styles of living are too different to co-mingle. sometimes you can be so similar that its annoying. most of the time, you both do things that the others find annoying, but tolerable.

don't get me wrong, i'm not saying that you should "shack up" with someone just because you love them for the moment, or you need a roommate. i really feel that this relationship should be significant enough that you're trying to determine if this person is your soulmate. just like there is the merging of property, there is also the dissolution. which definately becomes difficult to determine if you live in a state that upholds common law marriage. what do you think? should two people in a serious relationship cohabitate before marriage? or do you think that its best to learn together as a couple after its official?</description><pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 01:08:11 GMT</pubDate><author>only1shi</author></item><item><title>With or without?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2089582.aspx</link><description>In a day and age when many of us have had to cut back on everything including necessities what have you had to give up to make ends meet? 

We have cut dance classes down for our kids, gotten rid of the big TV package for a cheaper one (turns out we only miss one channel should have done that sooner) as well as unplug everything we are not using. We are not as hard up as many we know and could live on with out cutting these back but we felt it better to cut back now then get in too deep that it won't help.

What have others done or do you even feel the need to?</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 13:41:48 GMT</pubDate><author>OpinionatedLady</author></item><item><title>India versus westindies. How crucial is this game for india?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2037016.aspx</link><description>I think it is the most crucial game as far as india is concerned. South africa have already beaten england. So india has to win today to stay in hunt for the semi finals. India would be favourites against england but if they lose today then it will put them under a lot of pressure against england and south africa.</description><pubDate>Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:44:44 GMT</pubDate><author>pratik87</author></item><item><title>What's the Hardest Decision you have ever had to make? What was the outcome?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1912554.aspx</link><description>Do you know "Decision making is the best inner quality in human life"? In crucial times, god has saved my life in taking good decision. I am really thankful to god. What about you? Have you ever took hard and good outcome decisions..... </description><pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 04:10:17 GMT</pubDate><author>dailyprofits</author></item><item><title>the pains of loosing</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1493291.aspx</link><description>Superstars must really be going through pains when they fail to deliver,this statement is as a result of two important football cases last week.
the first one is the case ofJohn Arne riise who scored an own goal against his side in the encounter between chelsea and liverpool,it would have been a win for liverpool.I also watched in surprise as Christian Ronaldo throw away an opportunity to put manchester united ahead of barcelona fc in their champions league encounter.these two cases must be very painful,for these great stars.i only wonder how they are able to cope with it,what do you think/how would you handle this if it were you?</description><pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 17:19:34 GMT</pubDate><author>BYOLA2871</author></item><item><title>Parents! Hang up your cell phone.</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1472265.aspx</link><description>There is something that has been bothering me for some time. I want to share it with you and get your opinions.

More and more often I see parents with their child/children and they are on the cell phone virtually ignoring their kids relationally. They are still [i]taking care'[/i] of them but they are not interacting with them. I see parents driving their kids to school. The kids are sitting quietly in the backseat while the parent is on the phone. Or even walking with them to school, holding hands but talking on the phone. Or in the mall, or in the grocery store or even in the playground. I can imagine only a few things in life that are more important than time with my children. Our kids need the interaction with us. They need to talk with us. They need to talk to us about what happened at school, or the playground or on their sports team. The drive or walk to school is a great time to help them get ready for their day. Or the drive/walk home is the perfect time to find out about their day. I can only wonder what lessons are kids are learning from this about priorities and values.

Do you think that our cell phones are making us unavailable for our kids? Do you think it is affecting them at all?</description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 12:00:27 GMT</pubDate><author>Guardian208</author></item><item><title>What do you think about the player Kolo Toure-Arsenal</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1445516.aspx</link><description>I want to hear your opinion about the Arsenal central defender Kolo Toure about what do you think about his style of play.he is my favourite defence player ever he got so skills he is good in the defence and he can be usefull in the attack.what do you think?</description><pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 07:40:48 GMT</pubDate><author>gunners1886</author></item><item><title>where to get good prices on computer memory</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1388781.aspx</link><description>anyone know where to get the best pricing on computer memory?</description><pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2008 09:45:37 GMT</pubDate><author>dadoftwinsand1</author></item><item><title>Do you belive that destiny is crucial in your life inspite of your</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1300088.aspx</link><description>hard work and attempts?</description><pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 20:12:09 GMT</pubDate><author>balasri</author></item></channel></rss>