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From your own personal perspective, how long would say a couple should know one another before marrying, and why that particular length of time?

Thank you...
Karen</description><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 15:38:03 GMT</pubDate><author>PeacefulWmn9</author></item><item><title>How long does it take you to get to know someone? Months, Year, years?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1945486.aspx</link><description> How long do you have to know someone before you feel comfortable in saying, I know this person and I trust this person. Do you get to know people quickly or does it take you a long time?</description><pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 20:38:22 GMT</pubDate><author>eaforeman6</author></item><item><title>How well do you know the people in your life?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1585459.aspx</link><description>The title sums just that. If someone was to come up and say to I will hand one million if you can tell me which of these things is untrue would you be able to get that million? Or would you walk away empty handed. Earlier I did a quick discussion put down 10 things on that discussion and of the 10 three of the things were not true. I can't honestly say how well the only two who answered it did because the discussion was deleted. I have no clue why. But here is my underlying questions ...

1. How well do you think you know the people that are in your life?
from your best friends to just the friends you hang out with everyonce in a while. 

2. If given a test do you think you'll get 90-100 &amp;#37; of the test right?

Have a nice day and thanks for answering this discussion ahead of time.</description><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 15:01:20 GMT</pubDate><author>bellaofchaos</author></item><item><title>What Makes A Person's Character...</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1285033.aspx</link><description>How well do you assume to know other members? Do you think by reading their discussions and responses you know their character?

For me, other than the 1 or 2 members that I know personally in real life, most of the members on MyLot are complete mysteries to me. I get little tiny glances of their personality from time to time but never enough to know who they really are.

I've run across ppl that assume to know me, what I feel, think, believe in and stand up for. All based on words typed on a screen. The truth is that my Mom, who's known me my entire life, is still surprised by things she didn't know about me. 

I notice alot of ppl tend to label other members especially when there is a difference of opinion. 

Do you label and judge ppl based on what you think their character is? Do you get upset or angry if you feel someone hasn't lived up to your assessment of their character? Are you quick to label someone when they disagree with you? How well do you feel you know other ppl? 

How well do you know me? What character assessments have you made about me since knowing me on MyLot? What do you base those assessments on?

**AT PEACE WITHIN** 

~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~</description><pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 06:19:30 GMT</pubDate><author>twoey68</author></item></channel></rss>