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No way!

The thing is, we are really close friends and we have always talked about going to this place together. She has had a very difficult year and she does enjoy her time alone, I know this about her. But I also think it would be good for her to have me available if she needs a friend. (and did I mention saving her money?) 

She wont let me go. :( :(</description><pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 15:01:25 GMT</pubDate><author>pajamamaama</author></item><item><title>sick cats every where what to do</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1562026.aspx</link><description>ok i own a property that has a few rentals on it. i worked with this girl and thought ok she is alittle strange but she needed a place to live she said that she had a couple of cats me thinking like 2 said ok no problem are the indoor. well she moves in and brings 11 cats with her. i didnt relize it at first and then i walked over to that part of the property and cats were looking out all the windows. well we said no way to many. still she keeps bring back more. ok there is no ac in the house we use window units and you have to get your own. no big deal the pawn shops sell them for like 35.00 each. she has got one yet 3 months later. the cats are locked up all day in the house no air no window open. i found out that they have had 4 die already. they have put bug spray that you use out side the house on the cats trying to kill fleas. all the cats when they do escape and get out side look sick. the house smells so bad we will never get the smell out. it is horriable. we have no animal control, no animal shelter, no body to call to help these cats. now i think they are moving and leaving them all here. the pound charges 25.00 an animal to be dropped off i cant afford that. why are people so horriable?</description><pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 08:07:22 GMT</pubDate><author>easymoney75503</author></item><item><title>Hi everyone</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1505568.aspx</link><description>I will be back soon. Had a scare with my heart. Had to have stints put in. I felt so alone and scared, and still do. never met any of these Drs and they were curt and cold. Why do Drs and most nurses make you feel like a nobody? When you are scared, and in pain that's about the last thing you need.
Has anyone else had Vascular Stints put in with a cathater? How are you doing now? Were your "unknown" Drs and nurses curt to you too ? How did that make you feel? Made me feel if I died they would have an extra bed. How should I have handled it. Being that scared almost made me feel incapable of standing up for myself. What do you think you would have done?</description><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 23:07:28 GMT</pubDate><author>kitty2</author></item><item><title>Friends In Need</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1342056.aspx</link><description>I was devastated last year when my sister passed away unexpectedly, and a few months later my mother also passed. My good friend was there throughout both ordeals for me. Now her step-father passed last night, and it is my turn to be there for her. I don't want to smother her, but I am doing all that I can to make her know that I am available if she needs me. Do you think this is the right thing for me to do? I don't drive, so I cannot help her there-and she doesn't need that. Is it OK to just be there when she needs someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on?</description><pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 12:34:06 GMT</pubDate><author>worldwise1</author></item><item><title>Does anyone out there need some moral support or a motivational speaker?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/849822.aspx</link><description>I think I could be or give either. I'm not really a people person so to speak, but I like to see how I can make someone happy by helping to resolve their problems and I've spent many hour contemplating on the workings of the human mind and why we do what we do. I think that perhaps I might have what it takes to be a motivational speaker. If there is any problems you might have or any reason you feel down I'd be glad to lend a ear and help if I can. God Bless. 

P.S. When you have something higher to believe in namely God, it makes life easier to bear somehow knowing that your the outcome of your life is not only upon your shoulders but that you have someone there to guide you through all of your short comings and troubles and correct youalong the way. :)</description><pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2007 16:13:56 GMT</pubDate><author>Admirela09</author></item><item><title>My son needs a friend.........</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/476612.aspx</link><description>We recently moved here and i dont know anyone. I have not been able to meet anyone yet.  I really want my son to have a play mate cuz he is so bored and he loves other children. I can see the sadness in his eyes and he is so bored he just wants to sleep all the time.  I have spoken to so many doctors about this and they all tell me to go to my church .. but i dont go to chruch and i dont want to sign up for that.  
Is is wierd to aproach strangers and ask them if we can exchange phone numbers for our children to have play mates with eachother?  i feel weird doing that but what would you think if some lady asked you that?  would you feel wierd or think im wierd.  is it just plain wierd?</description><pubDate>Thu, 21 Dec 2006 13:19:45 GMT</pubDate><author>dragonflyfli</author></item><item><title>does everybody need a friend?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/463273.aspx</link><description>well i think yes everybody needs and deserves one!
what do you think?</description><pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 13:40:59 GMT</pubDate><author>architcool</author></item><item><title>need friends</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/743455.aspx</link><description>anyone cares to be my friend here.i only got one and she's kind enough to add me as her friend.thanks guys</description><pubDate>Fri, 09 Feb 2007 04:09:46 GMT</pubDate><author>inna07</author></item></channel></rss>