http://www.mylot.com/w/keywords/new+beginning.aspx MyLot Discussions About new beginning en-gb http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2187130.aspx You realized that your life is going nowhere. You wanted to make changes. Going back to school and taking up course that you really want. Quitting your job and look for the job you love to do.Thing is, you are not young anymore. Anytime soon you'll be turning 40. Is there a chance you'd make it and succeed? Will you go on with your current situation thinking it is kind of late to make a change or you'd rather take the risk of starting anew, come what may? Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:14:08 GMT eurekafemme http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2147652.aspx I do regret not pursuing my career. My dream was to become a famouse modle and be an idol of many. Instead I decided to be with a guy and our relationship only lasted only three years. I relizes I wasted three years of my life with him and did not prusue my life long dream of being a modle. It is heart breaking for me. I think about it every day. Think about what could have been. I quit modling school for that man. The relationship did not work out. I wished I stayed in school. My mom paid for me to go and it was a big let down to me and her. I made a big mistake and can not seem to forgive myself for it. I wish I could get over it. I could have actually did something sucessful with my life and I blew it. I also wasted alot of my moms money in the process. I still feel bad about that. It cost so much for that schooling and training. It was also a agency to. They helped you get modling jobs and so on. I was riding good until I met that guy. I do not know what I was thinking. Sat, 03 Oct 2009 08:18:49 GMT tuckersheri http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2100213.aspx When we are facing storms or typhoons we usually wonder and say when will this storm stop and we even pray for the storm to stop. And after the passing of the storm, the sun shines once again brightly as the beginning of a new day. We saw the devastation the storm had brought but the bright new day gives us hope that we can start again. The storm has passed, a brand new day is awaiting us. We sometimes don't like the trials and storms in life. We want them to stop. We pray for it to stop. But nothing happens, it's still there. Why don't we just look beyond the trials of life and hope for the new day after the storm. Why don't we shift our focus from the trials to the brighter day awaiting us. I know it's sometimes difficult, but with God, our families and friends supporting us, it is attainable and possible. There is always hope beyond the storms of life. Share with me your ideas or experiences regarding this topic. What is your ideas, outlook or experiences regarding the storms of life? Tue, 11 Aug 2009 01:15:21 GMT levite http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2005780.aspx STUPID O'CLOCK? Another mylottian used this expression and it kept me laughing all morning, so much so, that I just had to steal it. My apologies and thanks to Mr.Fish, as I stole this from you. So, do you get your best epitome's or revelations in the middle of the night, or do you do the stupidest or silliest things then. Or is there a time during the day where you just get the dosey's? Or any other ?? O'clock you found interesting, significant or amusing, please share. Is there a smart O'Clock? Or a neat O'clock? Or even a boring O'clock? Tell, tell, inquiring minds wanna know. WE NEED TO KNOW!! Jokesters welcomed and in fact, encouraged here. Let's have some fun. Mon, 11 May 2009 08:06:15 GMT AnnieOakley1 http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1991674.aspx Im 24. My childrens father is incarcerated currently, he will be out June 8th next year. My dillema is this. I want to pack up and move. I want to just go somewhere and start over, make a better life for my babies. I can't do that here. We currently live in a small town, with only a few job prospects. The place I want to go has offered me a job if I can get there. They will put us up in an apartment, and pay our moving expenses. But, my family doesn't want me to take my daughter. They have basically told me they don't feel that I will take care of my children. They want me to leave my 4 yr old daughter here and just go. I will never ever even consider that! They didn't say anything about me being a bad or neglectful parent until I said I had a job offer a few states away. What do I do? Mon, 27 Apr 2009 14:52:53 GMT BellasmamaTiff http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1949560.aspx I dont know what to do, say, or think! For once in my life I am speechless. I guess it would help if you knew what I was talking about. Here goes.... I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years now. We have our days, but no major issues. When we first became a couple we kind of let each other know what we expected from one another and also what we wanted for our futures. One of the issues I mentioned was that I dont want to be in another 13 year relationship as a fiance. I want to be married. I got pregnant right out of highschool. I was in a relationship with the father for 13 miserable years on and off. I took responsibility basically on my own. This is something I am very proud of. However, I never got married and thankfully so. He was a mess! After that ended I was single for a few years. I wasnt allowing myself to even date. I wanted to be with me. When I met A I knew he was the one! I am so grateful to have met him. When I told him about wanting to eventually be married he seemed in agreement. We didnt want to rush into anything. Well now its almost 6 years and everytime I ask or mention it he saids He doesnt know or tries to ignore the situation. I am devastated I love him but I cant allow myself to change my dreams. I have spent most of my life adjusting to make someone else happy. Am I wrong to not want to live together again. It seems to me something has changed or he was bull sh*tting me from the start. F*CK THAT! what do you think I should do? live with him or leave him? Sat, 21 Mar 2009 07:05:08 GMT dloveli http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1060851.aspx I was standing in front of the mirror flossing my teeth. I looked at myself and noted that I was still as handsome as yesterday. But what use is that? It is not as if I am working for some social escort agencies. My mind roamed to what I did today. Pretty as much as my nihilist philosophy sums up. Nothing. I tried to be a part-time prophet and see what I would do tomorrow. Still nothing. The future stems from the present which blossomed from the past. If you did nothing, do nothing, and will do nothing, does it mean something? Do you look forward to each new day? So much so that you eagerly go to bed, ready for the new day to unfold as soon as you wake? Or do you hold on to every shred of tonight's darkness, hoping that tomorrow will not come too soon? Or do you live day to day, thinking nothing of yesterday or tomorrow, but only of today? Or... ? Do share your thoughts - humans, elves, trolls and all. Mon, 07 May 2007 14:46:45 GMT lordwarwizard http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1374256.aspx Is it your parents or your lover? I thought about this question several times because we don't really know when we'll die or what happens next. Also, what if your in a situation wherein you're in your dying minutes and then there's only one person that you have the strength to call to. What if it happens to you in real life. Whom would you call FIRST? I guess for me, as much as I love my parents.. I think calling my boyfriend first is my gut feeling. I mean, your parents have been with you since the moment you opened your eyes during birth.. and you only had your boyfriend for several months or years but then you LOVE him that much. Just to call him, express my feelings, say goodbye and make sure he'll be okay by then. Wed, 09 Jan 2008 08:50:37 GMT meemingNEW http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1888142.aspx Yes you heard me right! The loser and his dad kicked me and my baby out the house. Some of my mylotter friends already know I've been having serious problems in my marriage. I spent a night in the hospital Saturday night and left Sunday coz I was feeling really weak and dizzy so they kept me over night. Can you believe that he didn't want to come and see me in the hospital? He said he had to go to church the next day and he would be sleepy in church if he spent any time with me in the hospital. But he did drop by for 5 minutes to bring me some clothes and some food, but he didn't even want to do that. [b]WHAT![/b] That's a bunch of crap huh? And if that wasn't bad enough, he didn't even call me all day Sunday to check on me, and when I was released on Sunday night, my dad came to get me coz I was still weak and sick. OK I spent a night over my parents house coz I haven't heard from my husband all day, my baby was with my parents the whole time coz my husband had to work and he didn't pick her up or go see her or buy her any medicine for her fever and cold. Alright here's the juicy part. The next day around 10am me and my daughter was getting ready to go home, which is walking distance, then my husband knocked on the door after him and his dad finished stacking most of my stuff on my parents porch. And guess what else? When I walked over there I seen his dad changing the lock on the front door to make sure I can't get back in. I even had to call the police to get in to get the rest of me and my baby's stuff. Ain't that a crime shame? And he's NOT gonna help support the baby anymore coz he's mad at me. His dad told him to do all this coz he hates me. He hates me coz I wouldn't go to his son's church and he didn't want me to visit my parents. His dad controls him all the time and he does whatever his dad says. His dad helped take his first baby from him and now he wants to take my baby away from me, which isn't gonna happen. It hurts really bad coz we had good times for a while until all heck broke loose and my baby will never have a dad.[em]sad[/em] I believe in God and I know he'll help me through this, it's just so hard and painful.[em]sad[/em] I also need a little encouragement from my friends here. Thanks a lot, God bless you. Wed, 28 Jan 2009 21:51:29 GMT miraclefreebies http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1883202.aspx Many people make New Years resolutions and most break the very quickly, but we don't need to wait for a new year, every day is a new beginning. When we awake each morning, why not let our first thought be,"I begin again today". We are turning a new page so let's let go of anything that we don't want to carry any further. Maybe it's fear, anger,resentment, disappointment - let it go and get on with life. We have at least 365 chances to begin anew every year. Think about it. Sat, 24 Jan 2009 20:17:29 GMT Pose123