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You see, stress in our relationships is something that we can no longer avoid. At one time we could keep it under control, but now that it is so difficult to make ends meet and to just plain survive, the stress can become unbearable.

What is your attitude when it comes to relationship and stress? Do you have some tips on how to end the stressful relationships? All responses would be appreciated. Thanks for you reply!</description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 19:30:37 GMT</pubDate><author>getbrowser</author></item><item><title>How to handle stress in relationship?</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2049504.aspx</link><description>Stress is the problem we are facing now in our relationship with my boyfriend. Lately, he had been so busy with his work and rarely have time to communicate in longer time with me. How I wish, we can have more time chatting with each other. I am very tired too because of my job as a teacher and talking to him makes me relax somehow. But as of now, we cannot talk much.I feel so much stress now and I wish we can have more time.Unfortunately, as of now, I feel so sad that I feel my partner have some difficulties talking with me because of work.

How do you handle stress in your relationship? What do you usually do to overcome those stuffs?</description><pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 19:16:38 GMT</pubDate><author>annierose</author></item><item><title>Have You Known/Met People Who Cause You So Much Stress???</title><link>http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1682604.aspx</link><description>I have known few people before who, for some time, have been part of my life as partner and/or friends. 


I had a boyfriend before who caused me so much trouble and stress. He was a very jealous kind of person that he was jealous even to my female friends! We had fights often and thus caused me stress aside from the tears and the heartaches. I broke up with him after four years of being so patient with him. I gave him up even though the love was still there. 


I also had a friend before who was so negative all the time. Everytime I met her all she talked about was problems, anger, hatred, family troubles. She was always crying, self-pitying. She always find negative things almost about anything around her. Oh, I was so stressed everytime I was with her, trying to comfort her, find ways to relieve and resolve her problems. But her attitude towards life remained that way, and so I had to keep distant from her as I was starting to absorb all negative things and energies from her.


I also had a friend who seemed to be following me everywhere. I don't know if he is obsessed or what, or need special kind of attention. He stressed me out as he will just appear and asking attention and too much of my time. I can't spend too much time mockering around as I have too much responsibilities at home and to my family.


Don't get me wrong...I am a very good friend and a loyal person. But I have enough share of problems that I don't need people to bring more stress in my life. I am a loyal friend to friends who understand that we still have separate lives to attend to and who knows how to bring ease and joy to each others lives. My friends also know that I was diagnosed with depression several years ago and thus they should know better not to add up to my stress.


Have you met people like these? And how were you able to manage with them? </description><pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 20:02:04 GMT</pubDate><author>toni_nakama</author></item></channel></rss>